When inspite of being surrounded by people u still feel like something is missing - you can say that, u are feeling lonely. Sometimes we create a space for loneliness and many a times loneliness makes its own place in our life just because situations apart us from the one who is close or special to us. In every stage of life, we meet new people & then destiny introduces us to someone who throws loneliness far away from us. Gradually, he/she becomes important to us. Though time passes very fast but we can never forget the person who has made a special place in our heart. Destiny introduces us to such people in times of loneliness.
It feels wonderful to be with him/her. You start sharing a bond that keeps on growing & growing. With the advent of technology like WhatsApp, BBM, etc you keep talking & sharing. Your day does not end without having a talk with each other. It is the time when u forget your past & start living with a smile.You call each other good friends, close friends, etc. That person becomes the most important one for whom u can do anything & everything & then your emotions & heart start playing their role.
When we start thinking from heart & feeling from mind, it is necessary to understand that friendship will be changed, either to attraction, liking or love. Slowly when we realise that we have fallen for that person, at once we feel at the top of the world but immediately we think, what would be his/her reaction when he/she comes to know about this? Hundreds of thoughts arises in our mind, like we get notifications on Facebook. We start taking advices from friends. We feel like telling him/her everything about our feelings but at the same time we think that we might lose them after that. The one who leaves you after knowing your feelings are not worth to be with u or even being your friend, because if he/she really understands u then he/she would never leave u.
It is strange that we start assuming certain things & so we try to control our emotions.We try not to let him/her know about our true feelings,just because we don't want the beautiful bond of friendship to die. For years & years, the friendship continues to be the same like before,the bond becomes much stronger but deep in your heart u always want him/her to be something more than a good or a close friend......
Lyfssss strange & it really is!!!!
It feels wonderful to be with him/her. You start sharing a bond that keeps on growing & growing. With the advent of technology like WhatsApp, BBM, etc you keep talking & sharing. Your day does not end without having a talk with each other. It is the time when u forget your past & start living with a smile.You call each other good friends, close friends, etc. That person becomes the most important one for whom u can do anything & everything & then your emotions & heart start playing their role.
When we start thinking from heart & feeling from mind, it is necessary to understand that friendship will be changed, either to attraction, liking or love. Slowly when we realise that we have fallen for that person, at once we feel at the top of the world but immediately we think, what would be his/her reaction when he/she comes to know about this? Hundreds of thoughts arises in our mind, like we get notifications on Facebook. We start taking advices from friends. We feel like telling him/her everything about our feelings but at the same time we think that we might lose them after that. The one who leaves you after knowing your feelings are not worth to be with u or even being your friend, because if he/she really understands u then he/she would never leave u.
It is strange that we start assuming certain things & so we try to control our emotions.We try not to let him/her know about our true feelings,just because we don't want the beautiful bond of friendship to die. For years & years, the friendship continues to be the same like before,the bond becomes much stronger but deep in your heart u always want him/her to be something more than a good or a close friend......
Lyfssss strange & it really is!!!!
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